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Unfortunately some people express themselves badly in the written medium. That said, I think some of the comments here have bordered on destructive rather than constructive criticism. Please stay and make a contribution towards changing that on SB. There are those who can debate well and succinctly, and not resort to personal attack.
I think personal experiences are worth reading about, and if we can learn from them as well then that's a bonus.
And may I say, in my opinion when people are hounded off here, then that reflects badly on ALL of us.
Yes, people can be blunt. You will never change that. Some of the most valuable lessons to be learned on this board come from what I believe you would consider to be rude members. For some of us, it's a bit like watching people run around with their face on fire. We scream "DUDE! YOUR FACE IS ON FIRE!!!!" and they reply with something like "I'm sorry, but I find your tone offensive and hostile. Besides, who are you to say my face is on fire?"
While I don't condone personal attacks, I don't think anyone benefits from beating around the bush or sacrificing the message for the sake of someones feelings. "Honey, are your cheeks feeling a little warm? Can I get you a fire extinguisher?"
FisherDVM, suck it up.... People don't agree with you, so what? You got called on a few things, think about them and move on. Crap people, it's the internet.... You contribute, you learn... it's a beautiful thing.
Much is read into posts that only exists in the eye of the person reading the post. Change your perception and you'll completely change the board. It's a lot easier and less frustrating than attempting to change members.