Just so that I'm clear on why people are opposed to ponies:
Is it that they simply believe a diver will see it as an additional air supply which can be used to extend the dive? Is there some other hidden danger? Or, is it simply that they prefer doubles?
I have a regular dive buddy who is pretty good (relative to my rent-a-buddies). But, he's a newbie too like me. There have been moments where we are in plain sight of each other but I couldn't get his attention. For example - if one of us is leading the other. Or, sometimes he'll do a swim-through on a structure where I prefer to do a swim-around. I can still see him, but we're out of reach. We haven't had an incident yet. But, that is the sort of situation that has me thinking about having an alternate air source.
I trust the buddy system to a certain extent. But, when it hits the fan, ultimately I'm the one responsible for me. Accidents don't care that my OW book said my buddy is supposed to help me out.