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Jen... Congratualtions on your diving. It's not unusual to be a little apprehensive on your first dives without an instructor/guide. Don't listen to anyone who might chide you for that. Everyone's skill progresses at different rates, and comfort levels progross at different rates too. It's not necessarily a bad idea to try to stay at least close to within your comfort levels and let the progression happen at it's normal pace.
For me, I had an odd route... took a quicky 3 day course in Hawaii in November, looked at local water and knew I needed more training, signed up for the YMCA OW course in December, did all the pool and classroom work but it was too rough to dive, went ot Oahu in early January and took the AOW course (already certified in November), went back and through all of the classroom work and pool sessions locally in January, February and March, finally was calm enough to dive the 4 OW dives at that time to pick up my YMCA OW card. Most of the next 10 dives or so were with my instructor or his DM buddies, one or two turned into SOSD dives when my buddy took off. After that I dove with my wife and other friends quite a bit.... but you know what, looking back, I kind of was a sucky diver no matter how many pool sessions, skill sessions, and the early diving. NOBODY is a finished product right out of Open Water class. I eventually made it to Instructor through my local instructor then moved out to Hawaii.
To Jim, I see that you've been an Instructor since sometime late in '07 or afterwards. You mentioned the phrase "my students" earlier, just curious, would it be fair to ask what your student count numbers as the signing Instructor are? I applaud the amount of time you put in with your students, I suspect if you are up in numbers you'd have to admit, student number 55 probably got a bit better training than your 5th student, and your 100th probably got a bit better training than your 55th... even Instructors progress.
Every instructor likes to believe that they've done a great job of preparing their students for the real diving world. How many opportunities have you had to dive with one of your students after OW certification where they haven't dove for a half year to a year since finishing the course? I suspect it's fair to say that most in that situation probably slid back a tad in skill levels over that time. Would you consider them ready to tackle an unfamiliar diving location with only a pool refresher?
My point is, even if you do a great job of training them and they're looking very good after the 4-6 open water dives you've worked them, that doesn't necessarily mean it's gonna stick. We keep hearing stories of newish divers being uncomfortable, not necessarily because of how they were trained, but because that's the nature of many/most people when their facing new dive situations (unfamiliar location, no Instructor/DM safety net, been a while since actually diving) the first few times... it's natural.
Aloha,
Jen... Congratualtions on your diving. It's not unusual to be a little apprehensive on your first dives without an instructor/guide. Don't listen to anyone who might chide you for that. Everyone's skill progresses at different rates, and comfort levels progross at different rates too. It's not necessarily a bad idea to try to stay at least close to within your comfort levels and let the progression happen at it's normal pace.
For me, I had an odd route... took a quicky 3 day course in Hawaii in November, looked at local water and knew I needed more training, signed up for the YMCA OW course in December, did all the pool and classroom work but it was too rough to dive, went ot Oahu in early January and took the AOW course (already certified in November), went back and through all of the classroom work and pool sessions locally in January, February and March, finally was calm enough to dive the 4 OW dives at that time to pick up my YMCA OW card. Most of the next 10 dives or so were with my instructor or his DM buddies, one or two turned into SOSD dives when my buddy took off. After that I dove with my wife and other friends quite a bit.... but you know what, looking back, I kind of was a sucky diver no matter how many pool sessions, skill sessions, and the early diving. NOBODY is a finished product right out of Open Water class. I eventually made it to Instructor through my local instructor then moved out to Hawaii.
To Jim, I see that you've been an Instructor since sometime late in '07 or afterwards. You mentioned the phrase "my students" earlier, just curious, would it be fair to ask what your student count numbers as the signing Instructor are? I applaud the amount of time you put in with your students, I suspect if you are up in numbers you'd have to admit, student number 55 probably got a bit better training than your 5th student, and your 100th probably got a bit better training than your 55th... even Instructors progress.
Every instructor likes to believe that they've done a great job of preparing their students for the real diving world. How many opportunities have you had to dive with one of your students after OW certification where they haven't dove for a half year to a year since finishing the course? I suspect it's fair to say that most in that situation probably slid back a tad in skill levels over that time. Would you consider them ready to tackle an unfamiliar diving location with only a pool refresher?
My point is, even if you do a great job of training them and they're looking very good after the 4-6 open water dives you've worked them, that doesn't necessarily mean it's gonna stick. We keep hearing stories of newish divers being uncomfortable, not necessarily because of how they were trained, but because that's the nature of many/most people when their facing new dive situations (unfamiliar location, no Instructor/DM safety net, been a while since actually diving) the first few times... it's natural.
Aloha,