My head has been swimming throughout this thread, and I have something of a big picture commentary on it all.You are asking for advise and getting opinions from experienced divers and instructors.
I got certified quite a while ago and logged quite a few dives as an AOW diver before rapidly going from Rescue Diver to DM, after which I assisted in classes for a couple years before becoming an instructor. After being an OW instructor for a couple of years, I thought I was pretty much at the top of the game. Then I started tech instruction in the DIR mode. I realized that I was pretty much a beginner again, and I worked hard on my new skills.
I began to apply those tech skills to recreational diving, and I saw my fellow recreational divers in a new light. I remember one drift dive in Cozumel in which I was in the approved DIR position, flatly horizontal, my knees bent 90° with feet up and head tilted back as far as possible as I drifted. One of the other divers had assumed a (to me) strange position, almost a sitting hover, as we drifted past the coral wall. For some reason watching him annoyed me. He was clearly doing things wrong, because I was Doing It Right. Looking back at it, though, I realized he was totally comfortable in that position, and by moving his head wherever he wanted, he could easily see all the sights as we went by. As for me, my range of view was extremely limited by my body position, and I had to use my new helicopter turn skills to keep my body in position in the current to see even that narrow range. But I was doing it right, by golly, so he was doing it wrong.
Today I am a (non-DIR) trimix instructor and a cave diver. I have decent tech skills, but they rarely come into play on recreational dives. I realize now that I had a false sense of superiority during that middle period of my diving. Maybe I was frustrated that the other divers could not see the benefits of my superior training in that environment. I would like to think I am a bigger man than that, but maybe not.
Lots of recreational divers have no idea what SAC or RMV or SCR or whatever you want to call it means. So what? They can dive just fine without that knowledge, just as I did for many years, including my first years as an OW instructor. They can do a vertical ascent or descent just fine. They are not getting the supposed benefits of that beautiful horizontal ascent, which I suspect for most people amounts to a demonstration for all to see that they can do it. I now believe that when a lot of people get that superior training and experience they develop with it a psychological need to use it when it really isn't necessary, and with that comes an accompanying need to believe it is truly necessary for everyone else to do the same.