Congradulations! It may have been a long jouney, but you made it and now the real adventure begins.
Ya, even divorces can be a growing experience. They toughen you up, and make you a stronger person, once you have survived the process!
My gf wanted to dive with me, but it was a very long struggle for her to overcome her lack of self confidence. She hates it when I say it took her 5 years and 5 countries to certify, but it is essentually true, in that she started, stopped and restarted training several times, with different instructors before she did eventually earn her OW.
She will never become the addicted diver that I am, but she loves to dive with me now, although she is quite content with one or two dives in a day. In a week she will be returning to Bonaire with me and my two teens, for her 6th dive trip there.