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Lsufootballfan
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Dude, I gotta tell you : it's MEXICO, you aren't in Kansas anymore.
You lost your paperwork, you got off your cruise ship with out a single clue where you were going, somebody helped you out, you found your way to the dive op destination late, a guy who was totally honest with you in every way, you treated him like he was a criminal. Your wife sucked water in her mouth and panicked, your buddy aborted the dive and you abandoned her without ever making contact with her to find out if she was okay, passed out, dead or who knows what.
Where exactly did anybody but yourself cause any of your problems?
Please, get your wife certified in the states or do it on a week long vacation, don't put her at risk anymore diving in the ocean, until she gets training and posseses the basic scuba skills she needs to be safe. Research your dive ops and don't choose based on low prices, choose based on reputation. Jumping off a cruise ship for a one day dive is pretty much a cluster f**k no matter where you go. It's certainly no place for a 'discovery' dive with your wife who isn't certified. Under water is under water. If she's so uncomfortable that a DM adjusting her gear caused her to emergency accend due to getting water in her mouth, you're lucky nothing worse happened to her. (does she even know how to make an emergency accent?)
You actually stumbled upon one of the top dive ops in Cozumel -- Aldora. Book a weeks vacation in cozumel, contact Aldora and set up a week of diving and get your wife certified and get some more dives under your belt too and put this behind you. I'm sorry, but to me you over-reacted to everything, you held everybody to a way higher standard then you did yourself. I'll say though when a Mexican wants to refund your money because he can't stand you, you have really accomplished something. You really need to Chill out.
Don't dive off a cruise ship unless
#1 everybody is dialed in on their dive skills (certification is a bare minimum)
#2 you are certain you're with a really good dive op
#3 lower your expectations and enjoy the ride. If you make it back without missing the boat you've had a good day.
If you can't do any of the above, book your dive through the cruise ship and enjoy a 25 minute dive.
And above all keep in mind one thing when you're in Mexico... you are in Mexico.
And really my friend, you freaked out about having to do a back roll off the side of a boat?
Mfinley, dude, sorry but I don't buy the excuse of "because it is Mexico"........It is inexcusable to provide poor customer service “because it is Mexico”……..It is inexcusable to be unsafe “because it is Mexico”……………It is inexcusable to be unprofessional “because it is Mexico”………(refer to the post by Cuddlefish to see what proper, professional and courteous service looks like)
If you would be so kind as to read my post again and pay particular attention to the reason that my wife sucked water into her mouth then you may be able to comprehend the unsafe practices that I talk about. To save you some time, my wife sucked water into her mouth due to the DM jerking on her regulator hose causing her regulator to be pulled sideways in her mouth. No DM/ or Instructor should EVER attempt to do the things that he did to my wife underwater, especially when he was unable to communicate to her what he was trying to accomplish. If this communication was impossible due to her lack of training then she is wearing a BCD that can hold air. Inflate the BCD to obtain neutral buoyancy.
Also, look up Discover Scuba and see exactly what it entails.....She has not been trained, she does not know how to perform an emergency accent, she was in a discover scuba dive, therefor it is the resposibility of the DM to ensure her safety and not be the one that causes the issue.
When I can see my wife climbing up the ladder and onto the boat on her own, she obviously wasn't passed out or dead. If something would have been wrong with her then I would have expected my competent DM to let me know this when he descended back to us and not to tell me twice that she was okay. As for as leaving my dive buddy....Are you serious?? My dive buddy became a 14 year old child as soon as my competent DM decided to cause my wife to panic and shoot to the surface. If you think that I should have followed the DM and left the 14 year old child by himself, 40 feet under water then I sure hope my child never happens to be on a dive with you.
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