I was indoctrinated by DUI 20 years ago on the vast superiority of trilams and later CF200 suits. I lived with that predjudice for two decades but recently switched to a neoprene suit after borrowing one (a 7mm Atlan) when I had a serious zipper leak in my trilam. After one dive I decided I would never go back to a trilam and bought a neoprene suit a week later (a 5mm/7mm O'neil). They swim infinitely better in the water with wet suit like streamliing, the stretchy material allows more flexibility without excess fabric or bulk and they require less air as squeeze is much less severe.
In terms of storage and transport they are no more bulky than a shell suit and the heavier underwear required and in the water the weight required was comparable to what I used in a trilam with heavy underwear, and about 4 lbs heavier than a trilam with lighter underwear.
They do take a little longer to dry, but they are much warmer. Even with wet gloves in 35 degree water my hands stay warmer than they did on dry gloves in a trilam as my core stays much warmer. Last Sunday my spouse and I did 3 dives in 45 degree water at depths of 120 ft with run times up to 45 minutes with no feeling of being cold. The trilam suited diver with us did not stay nearly as warm. I also spent several dives with periods of 3 continuous hours in 35-40 degree water this spring while setting cables and anchors for the local marinas with much of the time spent floating on the surface waiting for the shore party to get their act together. Cold was not a factor as it was in other years in a trilam and I was not generally cold and miserable toward the end like the other trilam suited diver.
Another misconception is that at depth neoprene drysuits lose a great deal of insulation ability. They no doubt lose some insulation ability, but they are in my experience still far warmer than a trilam. I have dove all winter in mine with a pair of sweats for underwear and have had no problems with being cold even at depth and with deco stops. I have also found that even when wet inside, they lose virtually no insulation ability which is definitely not the case with a shell suit.
My spouse, never having been properly indoctrinated by DUI and being open minded enough to recongize a good thing when she saw it, has dove a neoprene drysuit for the last 5-6 years. She bought it used with an unknown number of dives on it and has put at least 300 dives on it herself. So while neoprene drysuit life may be shorter than shell suit life, when you consider that you can get into a new neoprene drysuit for around $500 (undergarments included) and then expect 300 plus dives out of it, the long term cost is less than or equal to the cost of a trilam and far less than the cost of crushed neoprene. A drysuit life one third as long as a trilam is acceptable when the cost of a neoprene drysuit is only one third as much as a trilam, plus you get 2 more new suits over the same 15 year span.
So my advice is to break away from the herd and give serious consideration to a neoprene drysuit. You will spend 1/3 as much cash and be warmer, more comfortable and more streamlined in the water.