Thanks everyone for your great suggestions. After lots of thoughts, I decided to get a DUI CLX450 for my wife and me. While the DUI drysuit was considerably more expensive, I didn't want to ever regret that I didn't but the suit that I really wanted. Fortunately for me, I will fit into a stock suit. My wife needs a custom fit suit. We both got the zipper pockets on both legs and the zip seals for wrist and neck. Our undergarment will be the Bare T200. Hoods (wet? dry?), gloves (wet), and rockboots comes as part of the package. This is a package deal from Dive Tank, so I am not sure what hoods or gloves comes with the package, but we can always replace them later on. Actually - I have a pair of Henderson Gold Core gloves that I absolutely love, so I will probably continue using those.
The only bad thing is that our drysuit will take a little longer to arrive that I had thought (not DiveTank's fault). The person who was going to show us how to use the drysuit will be out of the country for a while, so we will not be able to use our drysuits until he gets back (December?). Kinda sucks because I think my wife has booked a boat dive (my first boat dive in Monterey) for my birthday in November. Maybe I will just hit breakwater or the local lake (Lake Folsom) and just try to learn how to use it on my own. Anyone here want to teach me how to use a drysuit?
Anyway - thanks to everyone for your suggestions!