I think I mis-read this the first time. So if I understand correctly, you are doing the cave course the first week and then diving in the ocean with your wife the next week. If that's the case, then I'd say use the drysuit for your cave course (as I said in my reply above) and bring a cheap 3mm for the ocean diving.I'm planning to take my TDI Cave cert in mexico (about 20 dives) around the month of march and bring the wife for more casual tropical diving the next week. We will do about 15-20 dives during the two weeks with my wife.