Yeh, yeh, yeh.... Got it fixed. Played with it for a long time, then I figure, the spring is too strong. So I cut about 2/3 inch off from it. Dove with it, and it still didn't work.
Then I cut another 1/2 inch off it. Still didn't work. But I did it on dry land. Then another 1/4 inch off, still didn't work. Then I just took a plier, and bent the spring back against its curvature (but preserving the original round shape and diameter). I kept doing it until the whole spring is shortened by 1/8 inch. Put it back on the valve, and inflated my drysuit. (I did the disassemble and assemble while I had the drysuit on). Finally - it deflated.
I still had some air in the suit, not completely empty, but I think that I am not so buoyant that it would be a super problem at depth.
Well, now we know how to decrease the tension on these auto exhaust valve. I could have also heated the spring, but this might denatured it too much.
Thanks for all the great advises.