Just an update, as i forgot to come back to this.
There was no issue with the actual dump valve. Its the position that it is on the suit.
I have started turning the wrist seal to twist the entire sleeve a bit when I don the suit, and also pushing the dump valve up when I need to vent. This combined with really exaggerating my body and shoulder angle seem to help a BIT, but I am considering getting it moved. I'm spending way too much brain power on getting air out of this suit. If I were to have an issue on a stop that I couldn't pass while also having trouble getting the suit venting I would be concerned...