Never seen a pony used on vacation in 28 yrs! My point is that there is a time and a place for them. Wrecks, caves/caverns, deep dives, and other scenarios. Just not on a recreational dive.
There is so much wrong with your post I'm not sure where to start. So I'll just pick anything.
There are in fact wrecks on recreational dives. I have found myself alone, exploring a hold inside a 120' deepwreck and that redundant gas supply would save my life in the event of an equipment failure that resulted in catastrophic loss of gas. And yes I'm solo certified.
I have found myself at the end of a say, 30 yard swim-thru in Palancar Gardens in Cozumel. See above about what would happen if I had a catastrophic loss of gas of my primary air supply should it occur when I have no direct access to the surface and even if I did it would be a stretch to think I could ascend 80-100' with no gas in my tank.
On a Dolphin dive in Roatan, we were able to stay at depth with the dolphins until our air supply forced us to surface. Guess who got to spend some time all alone with the dolphins because they had about 25% more air than everyone else?
On a shore dive in Caymans back in 2010, there was a bad current that I did not anticipate nor did I properly account for it. Found myself really working against it to get back to shore. Although I was staying shallow to conserve gas, I was fighting a current that was stronger as I got closer to the surface. The pony bottle allowed me to swim back much of the way below the surface, and save considerable time, and energy.
Because I have the redundancy, I can allow my primary tank to get to say, 500 psi rather than the typical 700-900 psi as advised or mandated by dive Ops, which gives me countless additional minutes, which equate to hours over several dives.
Even if I never, ever used a pony bottle on a recreational dive, having the peace of mind that I am protected from an equipment failure or a dive planning mistake, makes my dives that much more peaceful and enjoyable.
Thanks for the opportunity to educate you and point out the ignorance in your post that indicates that divers who use additional gear that other divers may not feel is necessary does not equate to incompetance.