Seems to me that if gear issues could have contributed to the breathing issues in this incident discussion of gear isn't off topic. I suspect I would have found weightbelts less of an issue had I used one of these.
The other thing that comes to mind Thea. You mentioned feeling like you couldn't get your head above the waves and also mentioned a back inflate BCD. If you are not used to these they can shift you forward. You need to position yourself a bit more than 90degrees to the surface to shift your weight back onto the bladder to avoid this. Easy to do and if you are used to the BCD you do it naturally. back to familiarity with the gear.
I know some mention the camera contributing to task loading. I am going to say something a little controversial here. I started using a simple point and shoot camera early on. I honestly feel it helped me relax more diving. It took my focus off stressing about exactly how I was breathing and bouyancy etc and let it come more naturally.
The other thing that comes to mind Thea. You mentioned feeling like you couldn't get your head above the waves and also mentioned a back inflate BCD. If you are not used to these they can shift you forward. You need to position yourself a bit more than 90degrees to the surface to shift your weight back onto the bladder to avoid this. Easy to do and if you are used to the BCD you do it naturally. back to familiarity with the gear.
I know some mention the camera contributing to task loading. I am going to say something a little controversial here. I started using a simple point and shoot camera early on. I honestly feel it helped me relax more diving. It took my focus off stressing about exactly how I was breathing and bouyancy etc and let it come more naturally.