markmud
Self Reliant Diver--On All Dives.
I think I will disturb the love-in by saying your last image (complaining without a solution being* whining) is complete and absolute nonsense and indicates an utter lack of experience in problem solving (please feel free to imagine some more insults here).
The first step to solving a problem is to know you have a problem. Not everyone with a problem is in a position to solve it. Quite likely those in a position to solve do not know the problem exists.
I guess I am taking this thread too seriously, but I see people properly messed up by this partic7lar point of view quite often.
Hi Ken,
People in top-down command and control hierarchies usually view bottom-up feed back as whining. You are correct, a thoughtful critique of some action or method is not whining, it is constructive criticism.
I am sometimes criticized for having my mask on my forehead while gearing up for a dive. My pony bottle is jeered at and I am asked how bad my air consumption is. My spare mask and two computers often receive the horizontal shaking head gesture. The above reactions to my diving style are not critiques but instantaneous judgements by sheep who usually follow group-think.
A few DMs have pushed me aside to show me how to rig my own kit. On one dive--my DM pushed the offending DM out of the way and told the offending DM that Mark (me) is a REALLY GOOD DIVER, so leave his rig alone!
It is my dive, let me dive it.
thanks,
markm