Like Lorenzoid, I started out using DIN because I was convinced by the ScubaBoard Received Wisdom that it was a better mousetrap. I've mostly switched to yoke except for twinsets and stage/pony bottles.
The adapters do move the reg closer to your head and depending on your body shape, BC, etc., you may hit your head. I do.
I have also found that the dive ops I have used are mostly switching to convertible valves with the inserts, but:
- As Lorenzoid says, they have to find an allen wrench and take the insert out. There are two "standard" sizes of wrench required to get the inserts out, and neither one is part of a typical fold-up save-a-dive tool. The insert is sometimes stuck and has to be muscled loose.
- On some valves the insert will be so stuck, that they will have to get you another cylinder.
- For many ops, only some of the cylinders have convertible valves, and so if you ask for a special cylinder (larger than 80, smaller than 80, nitrox) you may end up with a problem because they can't just trade out with the person next to you
- You do sometimes end up starting out the dive being perceived as the special snowflake who is holding up the whole boat while the DM deals with your goofy regulators
If you have your own cylinders but take them someplace to get them filled, you may find that the shop that fills them only has one yoke-to-din adapter, so that it takes longer to get fills especially if you drop off a half dozen cylinders at once.
Now, as for safety and reliability, there are really only two problems with yoke that matter:
1) If you are diving a stage or pony with the valve closed, it is possible to loosen the yoke clamp when it is your intention to open the valve, because they feel similar, especially with gloves on.
2) If the regulator isn't properly aligned and the clamp properly tightened, it is possible for the o-ring to extrude during the dive leading to a rapid loss of gas. This will generally happen on the surface or towards the beginning of the dive, when the pressure is highest, but can happen later in the dive you bump into something with the reg. If you pay attention when you put the reg on and do it right it won't happen.
DIN valves are not as rugged as yoke valves which is the main reason dive ops don't like them. The valve is more easily bent to the point where the threaded opening is out of round, if the cylinder is handled roughly with no regulator attached.