Well, I find it morally questionable to teach young men that death can be honourable. Meaningful, yes, if you save another life, or tragic, when you feel that your life no longer has a meaning without the person you love, but to tell someone early in their life that they can die in the name of an abstract sense of honor, and solidarity, when their death can no longer save another person, to me sounds cynical. The folks in the middle east have been killing each other, in the name of honor, for many generations, and that brought about nothing but misery. You may be right that I am clueless, I can only hope that people close to you, your wife, children, and parents, fully understand and embrace your perspective. I also wish that you could learn to better tolerate dissenting opinions, especially if you carry a loaded gun... I always thought about the Navy men as calm and composed, not easily provoked or offended. Your reply sounds a little emotional.