There really is so much going on with this thread and we need to be able to see other's point of view without the name calling. It appears that both gear and protocol failures caused this to happen. There is really no comparsion to a pick up dive buddy, family getting beat down, etc. to a group of highly trained military personnel. In any of the various cases you simply do not have a backup diver, trained personnel, etc. available as well as the team concept. These fine men did and expected the backup diver to do his / her duty to the upmost. So the diver, more than likely, stayed with the other diver trying to assist until the backup diver came to help. And that, sadly did not happen. There is a phrase we use in the military, it might be different to various services / groups, but it means the same. "I have your back," "I got your six," or "I have the watch." When these words are said, it really means just that. You can rest assure that I will do everything in my ability to protect you and thus it decreases the fear of going it alone without help.
This was read at my retirement as I have worked with Navy personnel during my 20 years. It was taken from the Navy with the substitution of Marine for Sailor.
The Watch
For twenty years
This Marine has stood the watch While some of us were in our bunks at night
This Marine stood the watch
While some of us were in school learning our trade
This Marine stood the watch
Yes.. even before some of us were born into this world
This Marine stood the watch
In those years when the storm clouds of war were seen brewing on the horizon of history
This Marine stood the watch
Many times he would cast an eye ashore and see his family standing there
Needing his guidance and help
Needing that hand to hold during those hard times
But he still stood the watch
He stood the watch for twenty years
He stood the watch so that we, our families and
Our fellow countrymen could sleep soundly in safety, Each and every night
Knowing that a Marine stood the watch
Today we are here to say
"Marine... the watch stands relieved
Relieved by those You have trained ,Guided, and Lead
Marine you stand relieved.. we have the watch..."
"Boatswain..Standby to pipe the side...Marine going Ashore.."
To those that lost their lives that day, I can only say, "your time was well served and remembered by those that you assisted, guided, lead and loved. Your watch stands relieved. Rest well my brothers."