Thanks so much for the replies. Looking at
@Macan picture seems like mine are how they should be as those are quite vertical. Rather than dealing with something complex I'll just let them be. It doesn't bother me/is not uncomfortable, I was just worried something wasn't right.
In terms of the bolt snap size, I could probably get by with something smaller but these are the size that people up here are using for 40 degreee water/thick gloves. I'll think about downsizing though to help suck it in more.
Tobin, you got me. I'm completely nuts