I am confused. Someone posts something they heard from one of the boat captains on the island. We discussed the implications of those statements with language like "if true" "if that's right" etc. The captains all know one another and communicate constantly by radio during the day. They reasonably should know.
Then I see others say the information is 90% false (which clearly implies they know the truth) and criticize those who are discussing it. Fine. If you know the truth, speak it. Otherwise, you don't know and shouldn't imply otherwise. As far as waiting for official information...when has anyone, in recorded history, waited for official information before discussing a subject of interest? If you simply get so upset that you want to tear your hair out whenever people are speculating and discussing events without having all of the facts, then no offense, but you must lead either a frustrating or very sheltered life, or have no hair.
Let's be real here. A lot of people dive Cozumel. A lot of people dive the devil's throat. Those of us for whom that is true are interested in the details, including the location and the dive op. That's how it is, everywhere, always. Add to that the fact that given the opportunity, those who investigate this would be just as happy to have the whole incident go away and not scare the tourists, and you will have discussions. I would want to know what happened and who the dive op was so I could decide if I want to use that op next time.
This is a public forum and unless someone learned facts through some confidential relationship, there is no privacy issue. For all we know, this poor woman had a heart attack, but also for all we know there may have been gross negligence on her part or the part of someone else. Putting aside all the cruise ship diver and Asian diver stuff, I see nothing wrong with people seeking information and discussing what they hear. More importantly, it is human nature and it isn't going to change.
As many politicians have learned, if an event is of interest and those with the facts sit on those facts or delay their release, or conceal them, it won't stop discussion, it will just make the discussion focus on rumor, suspicion and innuendo, which may well be worse than the truth.