Wow!.........Dont you think thats a pretty strong & all encompassing statement? I know very little of H2Andy, only what he has allowed us to learn about him thru his postings here so Im reserved about making such blanketed statements.Seabear70:First, show me a lawyer worthy of my respect. Please, I bego of you. Show me one!
I agree completely.Seabear70:What can be done is that whe npeople are sent to jail it is a bad enough place that people do not want to go back.
I dont agree at all. Every person born into this country has a clean slate. If you break the law, you should be punished accordingly. It is at THIS TIME, that you have lost all of society's confidence in your ability to act as a human being. THATS why your in jail, because you have demonstrated that you are no longer able to live within the laws. When you get out, you have to re-earn society's trust, thats why its called "PROBATION"! You are being allowed another chance to cohabitate with society, screw up again=back ya go.Seabear70:And at the same time We start to change the perception of ex-cons in society to people who have paid for their crimes so they have a possibility of getting a good job when they get out.
You want ME to change my view of someone who just came out of prison for rape? or Murder? or Home Invasion? Possibly where all 3 offences were commited? Nope-No way.........You want my trust? Earn it. While yer in jail living off my taxes (which is $$ I would rather spend on my children) and trying to manipilate the clogged judicial sytem in your quest to get released on a technicality, LEARN A TRADE!!! Get your GED, study up on botany-engine repair-take a few psycology courses and try to figure out the REASON why you commited the crimes-ANYTHING!
Nobody simply resets a switch when you walk out of the prison. We try to train our children the same way. If they constantly come home after curfew or dont complete chores or consistantly exhibit improper behavior, what do you do? You punish them. You take away some of their liberty's, TV,video games,car, money- whatever it is and they DONT get it back until they have again, earned your trust! Its the SAME thing with criminals.
And regarding your comment of "who have paid for their crimes so they have a possibility of getting a good job when they get out" Well, what did they do before they went in? Why cant they return to that trade? Or if they had none, why should THEY be GIVEN a shot at a career that another person more deserving of may be. Once again, learn when yer in-stay out when yer out.
Every one of us is who we are, becasue of the decisions we make/made. Speaking for myself, I am who I am becasue of what I did, I made myself a productive member of society. Nobody gave me anything. Yep, I got the loans-I got projects that others were passed over for. But I got them because I earned their trust and respect and a demonstrated track record.
And yes, I have hired ex cons, addicts from rehab ect. They had the skills but they just wanted something handed to them. They displayed an attitude that they were cheated out of something and had it comiong to them. Im sure they are NOT all like that, just the ones I had.
Im not slamming you and your opinion here, everyone has a right to it. I just went off on a tyrade here, ive had some problems lately with the exact type of people you are trying to "forgive and forget"
O.K.im done..................
till I see another thread that ignites me again.....