nalfein
Contributor
I've found for the most part that the people who are the biggest knobs as far as diving or anything else is concerned, have recently advanced a level. Newly certified at a certain level, new DM, instructor, just promoted, whatever. It seems that people use their 'on paper' identity as a blueprint for their attitude, or to help them pick suitable behaviour. Once they settle in, the newbie insecurity settles down, and they are what they are, no need to try so hard to convince everyone.
I don't know any cave divers, I've met only one personally, and he was very agreeable, no attitude whatsoever, confident..yes, strong opinions..... sure. I know that I'm nowhere near the skill level of a full cave diver, so it was easy for me listen to him. This is just my opinion, but I think that many people who run down cave divers for being dinks, are just insecure about something. Maybe they feel that they are just as good.... or the " He's not so big, I could kick that guys ass...." syndrome comes into play, whatever.... so you run him/her down in the only way you really can, something as subjective as attitude. I'm just as guilty of that knee jerk reaction as the next guy/girl. Whenever it comes up, I try to suppress it and listen for a second, my subconscious just might be letting me know I have something to learn from this a@#hole..
Like I said... I don't really know any cave divers..... so just my two cents, take it for what it's worth.
dive safe everyone..
chris
I don't know any cave divers, I've met only one personally, and he was very agreeable, no attitude whatsoever, confident..yes, strong opinions..... sure. I know that I'm nowhere near the skill level of a full cave diver, so it was easy for me listen to him. This is just my opinion, but I think that many people who run down cave divers for being dinks, are just insecure about something. Maybe they feel that they are just as good.... or the " He's not so big, I could kick that guys ass...." syndrome comes into play, whatever.... so you run him/her down in the only way you really can, something as subjective as attitude. I'm just as guilty of that knee jerk reaction as the next guy/girl. Whenever it comes up, I try to suppress it and listen for a second, my subconscious just might be letting me know I have something to learn from this a@#hole..
Like I said... I don't really know any cave divers..... so just my two cents, take it for what it's worth.
dive safe everyone..
chris