PerroneFord
Contributor
You both likely don't need the same size tanks. Most ladies I have dived with use less air then us guys. It's simply math smaller bodies, smaller lungs equal less air. I have two 119 and really like them. A girl I dive with get close to the same BT with a steel 80 as I can with a 119.
There is a VERY dangerous assumption here, and one I try to caution divers against.
Let's assume a large man and a small woman enter the water with equal size tanks. Let's just say Al80s. They do a plan that says they will do their dive with half the gas, and then surface, and they expect to reach the surface with 500psi or so. They commence the dive, do the dive according to plan. The guy surfaces with exactly 500psi but the woman has nearly 900.
The following week, they do exactly the same dive with the same plan, but just before they surface, the guy's tank blows an o-ring. So now he must surface on only what the girl has. Because she breathes less than him, they share that last 1500 or so. Based on what we learned from the previous week, the guy used 1000 psi of his 1500 available when the dive was thumbed. The girl only needed 600. So for this failed dive the guy still needs that 1000, and the girl needs her 600, but they turned the dive with 1500. Someone is going to be short, or they are not going to be able to complete the safety stop.
How would this scenario play out if they had dissimilar tanks? Say the guy realized he needed more gas so the girl kept the AL80, and the guy got a nice new 119? So instead of the guy having to turn at 1500 and be the limit, the girl now gets to her turn pressure faster. In that scenario, the girl would not have enough air for them both to make it to the surface in a controlled manner.
Dive buddies SHARE gas, and must plan so that one can assist the other in case of failure. If the divers have very different breathing rates AND use dissimilar tanks, the potential for disaster is present if it's not thought through.
Now I realize this is a somewhat flawed and simplified example, but it still illustrates the danger involved in not planning dives as a team, and rather as two individuals.