All the info listed is good, except the one about using nitrox, though there is anecdotal evidence of such for smokers.
Basically, you must learn to relax and cut down all unnecessary movement.
Yoga and meditation should help greatly. Learn to "wind down" before getting into the water, and work to maintain an even, consistent respiration rate. Practice in your spare time as part of meditation.
As mentioned, forget about "skip breathing".
Since I started diving, I now easily get 2-3 times the mileage out of a tank.
Merely "experience" in terms of more dives really isn't enough. I've been in the water with experienced divers, even women, who go thru a tank of air like you wouldn't believe. My guess is these people never really learn to relax.
In terms of air consumption, it helps to be female, but the conversion process is rather onerous.
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Oh, I found this list somewhere online.
FACTORS THAT AFFECT SAC
Size of the diver; smaller divers have smaller lungs, therefore a lower SAC
Women generally have a lower SAC rate than men
Smokers tend to have a higher SAC
BMI. The larger diver requires more O2 than skinny folk, hence a higher SAC
Healthy divers use less air
How relaxed a diver is during the dive; stress or anxiety increases SAC
Exertion; fining in strong current will make a diver out of breath and increase SAC
Streamlining kit and reducing drag in the water can keep SAC down
Flat trim also reduces drag and effects SAC
Good buoyancy will help SAC, as a diver isn’t constantly inflating and deflating BCD and working to maintain depth
Diving in cold conditions can increase SAC
Badly maintained gear; any leaks, no matter how small, will have an effect on SAC as extra air is being used