Congrats on your 12th dive!!!
On the buoyancy, you are to be commended for working on it. As an instructor, I think it is one of the things that takes the most practice, and people find a bit frustrating.
First, make sure your weighting is correct. As you may recall, you should weight such that you float eye-level with weights and no air in your BC, and not holding a deep breath, but just a normal inhalation breath.
If you have access to a pool, I suggest doing this in your LDS pool. Take your fins off, so you won't feel the urge to kick (messes up most students, as they won't stay still in the water). Next, exhale and do a very slow descent. Give physics a chance to work....that is, as you empty the air from your BC and start to slowly descend, quit letting the air out.
You will notice that as you descend (while diving), that as you start to descend, you go down faster and faster. This is because your wetsuit and gear is compressing at depth. However, if you're doing this in the pool, you'll mainly use your lungs.
In the pool, I have student descend to the bottom. Then, add a SINGLE short (and I mean as quick as you can get air in, then let off the inflator button) burst of air into your BC. Relax, and go through a breathing cycle of a couple of breaths. It is very important while working on buoyancy not to hold your breath.
NEXT, if that single short burst doesn't work. Add one more. Repeat the whole process, until you almost feel yourself about to lift off the bottom of the pool. Next, inhale a BIGGER breath, and you should feel yourself start to rise. This "bigger" breath is called a "top breath", wherein you are inhaling a little more than normal. As you rise, exhale slightly, then go to a normal breathing pattern. You should be able to rise and fall a foot or two, just by using your breathing, once you've got the right air in your BC.
Don't get frustrated!!! Keep practicing, and if you're having issues, talk to your instructor, or ask the shop. Everyone will be happy to help you out.
Once again, you are to be commended for realizing you have an issue, and that it needs work. Once you nail your buoyancy, you'll find that once you're at depth, you'll almost never use your inflator/deflator. The only time you'll use it is to let air out on your ascent to your safety stop, and then to inflate when you're back on the surface.
Stick with it, and you'll be amazed at how much enjoyable diving is with good buoyancy!!!