Try to breathe more shallowly. It’s difficult because you feel like you’re not getting enough air. Sip the air, gently let it out.
I caution against this. An easy to get CO2 retention and post-dive headaches. Ask me how I know!
Especially when moving around.
A deeper breath with a pause after inspiration is the most efficient for gas exchange and may improve your RMV.
Can we get a respiratory physiologist to comment?
Holding at the top of the breath seems a common habit in open circuit divers for a few reasons, but I'm not sure if it because that is ideal for gas exchange. We have a tendency towards fuller lungs underwater by instinct (from swimming etc). There is also a small positive pressure on open circuit regulators. They breathe for you, making the full lungs 'pause' seem natural.
Hop onto a CCR at ambient pressure, and the 'deep then pause' thing completely goes away (unless it's a chestmount unit, perhaps). The breathing is far more natural (or should be, with a proper unit and trim)
Dynamic flow and the expansion and contraction of alveoli is important for gas exchange. Pausing/holding is doing neither. Static diffusion is not sufficient or optimal. Fully exhaling is important too.
You may indeed consume less gas by introducing pauses at various stages of the breathing cycle, but I don't think it is improving gas exchange. CO2 issues once again.
The SCUBA tank breathing guru mantras get silly! No matter how practiced, there is nothing much natural about being a human squeaktoy on a compressed cylinder of gases at pressures far exceeding anything our bodies were made for. It totally works out, but let's not get too philosophical!