Walter:I enjoy setting up my gear. I don't enjoy someone trying to put my fins on me. They earn a tip from me by staying out of my way. I don't mind an offer to help. I do mind when they start to insist. That is not fun and relaxing. If you enjoy it, by all means let them treat you like a mindless incompetent. I'll pass.
I've never let anyone put my fins on me or treat me like a mindless incompetent. Walter, I admire your experience and usually agree with your opinions, but this one is way off the mark. I know how to drive a car, too, but I'm not gonna make the taxi driver let me drive. I'm paying for a service, and they're providing it, pure and simple. If that's the way you want to do it, that's fine, but it doesn't mean everybody else is a mindless incompetent.