The more of you there is the more of you needs to be oxygenated and the more air will need to be in contact with lung tissue to accomplish that and as a result you will consume more air. There is nothing you can do about it directly other than loose mass, increase fitness. Indirectly, I know you are not breathing correctly, your not balanced out and I doubt your rig is optimized and a few other variables like being relaxed (whatever that means--I am never relaxed---and the needle on my spg moves like watching water boil).
The correct breathing method is not what is taught today, you should take long and slow deep breaths which allows each lungfull more time to transfer the 02 to the blood stream--this type breathing is more efficient than the panting most people naturally do. Taken to an extreme some might call this skip breathing--don't go to that extreme. Aerobic exercise and anerobic exercise (wind sprints etc)--not power lifting will help your body to become tolerent of being in the 02 deficit.
Big people are at a disadvantage, they have more body mass, they have more frontal area in the water, more mass to accelerate, they burn more calories, use more air. Sorry. The good news is that you have a huge room for improvement but the bad news is, everything else EQUAL, the 5-11, 175 pounder is going to use less air than you at 6-2 and 225 pounds.
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