Thanks for all the input. To answer some questions that have been brought up:
- This involved a REAR shoulder dump, not a front, airhose connected dump
- It seems that it really did unscrew, as nothing is obviously broken and it was able to be screwed back on. He is an engineer by profession so I imagine he would be able to tell if the threads were broken, but I'll ask him again
- This occurred at the end of the last dive of a week of diving
- As the airhog in the team, I was down to 750PSI but he still had about 1500PSI in his Al80
- It was serviced about a year ago, and was not used between then and this trip
- He has many years worth of diving experience over me, though doesn't claim to be an expert diver, but I didn't notice him having any trouble with his bouancy at any point during our diving, nor did he report any.
- This incident occured at the surface, after inflating the BCD, while awaiting his turn to board the boat. He dropped his weights after failing to reinflate his BCD and having trouble maintaining surface position, with 5ft chop and not knowing what the cause of the problem was. I don't know, in my inexperienced opinion, whether he really should be faulted for dropping his weight as opposed to attempting any other maneuver. In those conditions, I imagine that was the quickest, and therefore safest, method of reestablishing surface buoyancy and getting onboard the boat. After all, his buddy and the DM, were already on board and neither noticed immediately what had happened either.