To lube or not to lube? No need to lube static o-rings. Static o-rings to not see any motion between the parts they are sealing. Inboard (that screw into the first stage) hose ends are static.
Dynamic o-rings seal parts that move, like SPGs and second stages. They should be lubed. The outboard hose o-rings are dynamic.
If you don't have a pick, you can put a small amount of grease on the inside of the second stage fitting and it will transfer to the o-ring that's hidden by the b-nut on the hose. I lubricate every second-stage o-ring I install. Definitely lube the two #3 o-rings on the SPG bullet.
Dynamic o-rings seal parts that move, like SPGs and second stages. They should be lubed. The outboard hose o-rings are dynamic.
If you don't have a pick, you can put a small amount of grease on the inside of the second stage fitting and it will transfer to the o-ring that's hidden by the b-nut on the hose. I lubricate every second-stage o-ring I install. Definitely lube the two #3 o-rings on the SPG bullet.