Hello guys,
I thought I'd come and update on my diving situation. After the aborted course, which would have been my third, I waited for almost three weeks until my stiff neck improved, and two days ago I spent a three-hour session in a swimming pool with an instructor who agreed to give a one-to-one lesson for as long as I needed. I found him browsing the internet; I couldn't find any review, but I read that he had worked with many types of people, including physically and mentally handicapped ones, and I decided to call on him. It was expensive, but worth every penny.
It was a completely different situation. Knowing that I would have all the time I needed, and that no one would be waiting for me, made all the difference. The instructor very patiently suggested many exercises so I could get used little by little to having water inside my mask, and to breathing with water inside my mask covering my nostrils before doing the same underwater. It took some time for me to get the knack of blocking my nose while inhaling, but I managed to do it. I removed my mask underwater several times, and I was delighted to see I didn't feel in a hurry to replace it. A couple of times I wasn't able to empty my mask correctly, but I didn't panic at all. And then we dived the length of the swimming pool without my mask on a couple of times. Afterwards, the instructor said he hadn't noticed any problem as far as my coordination or my trim were concerned, and he complimented me on being able to keep a reasonably good buoyancy by filling or emptying my lugs without using the BCD all the time. Of course, my buoyancy was affected when removing my mask and all that, but he said it was good enough for a beginner.
I can really say I've almost come to like the feeling of diving without the mask, and I can't wait to practise it more. The only thing which I'm not so sure about is whether I'd panic in a situation where it's kicked off unexpectedly, but I'm sure there'll be ways to practise that after I become an OWD.
Now I'm sure I'll get my OWD certificate one day, probably in my next course. I told this instructor how I'd like to carry on with the dive school I was already in, because I've already paid for the course and because I'd like to show them that I really can do it without their thinking I've taken the easy way out and gone somewhere where they certify you only because you've paid. I'm looking forward to the course; all they have in August are complete, but I'll enrol in the first one in September or whenever I can.
I couldn't be happier now!