I'll question that "lived experience."
I don't think I've ever encountered another scuba-diver actually using a pony bottle "in the wild." I've certainly met scuba-divers that own pony bottles (and leave them at home, or are selling them). I talk to some on places like ScubaBoard. I never see them at dive-parks, on dive-boats, or any other in-person activities. Actually buddying with one, would have to be an even smaller sample size. Perhaps pony-bottles are common somewhere, but I don't see them locally or while on vacation.
It would be almost impossible to draw any accurate conclusions about the diving skills, personality traits, and mental deficiencies of an entire group of people based on a nearly non-existent sample size.