If the IP is creeping up after you installed a new seat, the orifice may be damaged. This would however normally result in the second stage freeflowing to vent the excess pressure.
A leak our the cap suggests one of the o-rings is leaking - either the piston stem o-ring or the piston head o-ring. If the o-riongs have bene replaced and the problem persists, it may be that the bearing surfaces for one or the other o-ring are scratched, corroded or other wise damaged. I'd clean them thoroughly in either an ultrasound bath or a 3% to 4% solution of muratic acid (which s normally sold in greenhouses and hardware stores as a 30% to 35% solution of HCL) about 4 oz in 32 oz of water will get you in the ball park but do the math based on whatever concentration you find.
Once cleaned, inspect the bearing surfaces in the reg body and the cap carefully for damage. If you find none, install new properly lubricated o-rings and it should be leak free.
The "gouge" theory is a possibility, except there is absolutely no need to go fishing around with an o-ring pick inside a Mk 2 to remove the o-rings, so how it would happen is a bit of a mystery and I'd lean more towards salt or sand related abrasion or corrosion, particularly in the cap.