I don't know Jon ... I know Nicolle and Janna, and met several others last time I was down there for the seminar.
We haven't set a firm date yet, but will soon ... and I'm sure Seven Seas will let all their clients know about it. The seminar is free. There is no prerequisite ... all are welcome from instructor to uncertified. It basically describes for you how to think about your available air as part of your dive plan, rather than simply relying on your SPG to tell you when to end your dive. There's an
article about it on my website, but a live presentation gives you the opportunity to ask questions and interact with fellow divers to share perspectives. It's well worth coming.
About you and your dive buddy ... those situations are very common. For sure I think you would benefit from getting in the water a few times with a mentor ... someone you can feel confident being with on a relatively simply dive. Definitely AOW is not the right way to establish that confidence ... you would get more out of just diving at this point.
The comfort and confidence will come with experience. And take it at your own pace ... if it feels like you're pushing too hard, back off a bit. Talk to the folks at your shop ... my experience with them is that they're a supportive bunch down there, and I'm certain you can find a mentor.
If you and your fiance want to head up my way sometime, I'll dive with ya ... I'm about 2.5 hours north of Portland, just off of I-5. Got a nice little dive site (Redondo) about five minutes from my home that's ideal for the new diver. Maybe I can show you an octopus or two ...
PS - just noticed PNW diver's comment about an upcoming Hood Canal dive. I highly recommend it ... probably gonna be at Sund Rock, which is a great site.
... Bob (Grateful Diver)