Speaking as someone who designs and manufactures various bits and pieces for military radio systems its a volume issue. Often I have phone call with vendors that go something like this:
Vendor: sure we can build that for you, how many do you want
Me: we need 1,000
Vendor: thats great, now is that 1,000 a day or 1,000 a week
Me: 1,000 total over the 20 year fielded life of the product
Vendor: 'laughs then hangs up on me'
That is the reality of the electronics industry, if you arent building 1,000 a day they dont want to talk to you, its not worth starting their assembly line, so dive computers, like the military electronics I build are regulated to specialty low run mfg's and are going to cost more. It has nothing to do with technology or being behind the curve, its a NRE, DTUPC, and ROI issue.