Maybe I am just inexperienced enough to still be idealistic. I am anal retentive about keeping track of my own gas, and I guess I feel I don't need anyone holding my hand in that respect while diving. I always do have my buddy and me signal when 1500 psi (roughly half tank) is reached, and am comfortable going from there. But, as proof by your stories, these guys that don't manage well or at all are out there.
I did have something similar happen to me in Coz that happened to you in Tacoma. But, I "let" the guy go (there was no stopping him) up by himself and did my deep and safety stops. I was not getting bent because of his stupidity.
I did have something similar happen to me in Coz that happened to you in Tacoma. But, I "let" the guy go (there was no stopping him) up by himself and did my deep and safety stops. I was not getting bent because of his stupidity.
kalvyn:Well... I once went out on a charter here in Tacoma as a single diver and got paired up with a "buddy of circumstance". We talked about the plan, turn pressure, etc (though not in enough detail, using hindsight). During the dive, every time I signaled for pressure, I got OK back. I didn't get too annoyed about it until he signals to me in about 70 fsw that he's at 600 PSI!. I don't like to come up fast from depth but we were gonna be doing just th
http://www.scubaboard.com/images/icons/icon_rolleyes.gif[/img] I was still a pretty new diver at that point and didn't feel like I had the experience to be telling anyone how they should be diving, but I can assure you that I looked at his pressure gauge at every opportunity on the second dive that day.
I was talking to someone recently about this sort of thing, and his suggestions to me really made me rethink my "buddy attitude". In my story above, I was put in harm's way as a result of that guy's poor gas management. In the future if this occurs, I'll talk about it with the person afterwards (not in a mean way, but in a mentoring way as Snowbear mentioned earlier in this thread). If the person seems willing to adjust, cool. If not, I'm sitting the next dive out. Talking about all this sort of stuff isn't me telling others how to do things, it's really about taking MY safety and well-being into account. I know I've got things to learn and work on in my diving; I'm certainly not a know-it-all nor do I like telling others what to do. I do want to be safe, and by being a better buddy I can do a lot towards being safer in my diving.
Jimmie