Thank you for posting this, and I am sorry for your loss, even 10 years later it is still traumatic I imagine. This post helps me solidify what I have learned. If your not feeling 100% time to go up. I read your link to my husband and told him that even with all Carols experience and ability the mere presence of some fluid in her lungs canceled that all out. Again, thank you and I hope happier memories continue to support you