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A ScubaBoard Staff Message...
I've been following the spinoff discussions in this thread with great interest. I haven't assimilated them all yet, but feel like I'm getting close. I'm beginning to wonder if my original question of lite deco wasn't just a part of something much larger that was eating at me.
So, insta-buddies are a known problem? Seems to be...
I can only surmise that what is producing insta-buddies is far less than effective. If not, a bad insta-buddy would be an outlier issue, not a core issue.Have you dived with many instabuddies? You can never know how they're going to react, and you can never know how calm and rational they'll be ...
OK, noted.BSAC doesn't support solo diving. ...//...
But I see a fundamental problem. I dived solo all my life. Started with my son as my buddy. ADHD, compromised. Birthmother prone to excesses, but we won't go there.
Both got OW certified, NAUI and PADI (I wanted to make sure that he got it. Rinse and repeat) Got a gate pass to a great quarry. 24/7 365. Day or night. But we had to be together as buddies. Why? I remain convinced that this requirement was only to shift the blame to either me or my buddy if something went badly. Nothing more than that, nobody will ever convince me otherwise. So, question, would BSAC have certed both of us to dive behind a locked gate in the middle of the night?
Back to solo. I never felt so safe, secure, and centered as I did when I dove for the first time by myself, all alone, with nobody anywhere near. Just imagine the absolute relief. I only had to worry about me.
Now, before anyone goes spastic over me not knowing what I don't know, I have several PSD certs that are all about the team. I was the dope on the rope, the profiler, the line tender, the backup diver, and the 90% diver. I filled out the sheets, and passed the tests in SARR for both standard and under ice. Entanglements are a given. Grace and style are not. It is all about survival and accomplishing the task.
Kid is on his own now. Time for me to pick up the niceties. Struggling with that. No prob. Just takes time and practice.
This is a problem....//... There is more to a set of tables than the first dive. Many issues involve repeat diving, so you have to consider how aggressive all these scenarios are.
And this is the given......//... I've never been bent... I never intend to get bent.
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