I am offering this information as I saw it, after many days of worrying, because maybe it will save another. I know I have made a pledge to myself to be less complacent and more attuned to the other divers on the boat.
Amy told me that morning she had done less than 50 dives. Myself and one other gal each invited her separately to be a buddy, but she declined. She did not want to "hold us back". She wasn't looking for teeth. She planned to stay within sight of the anchor line, and only stay a short while. She did not have a pony. She did not carry a reel. She told me she wasn't carrying a computer, because she did not plan to stay down long enough to deco. Integrated weights I think (she said her BC was like mine). Equipment was found with 0 psi. Equipment was not recovered that day, but coordinates given to coast guard.
If I could do that day over, I would have dived with her and stayed by her. That will probably be the biggest regret of my life. Why didn't I recognize that she needed a buddy?
The last I saw Amy, she helped me out of my gear after my dive, because I was terribly seasick and throwing up. That was just how she was. Always putting the other person first.
I've been reading this thread as
I lost one of my friends on this same site 3 days before. I have noticed several major areas where these inicidents diverge in thier details and causes of the accident. I can speak from first hand knowledge in one case as I was there, but in this case until highlandfarmwv made some further details known I did not know how far apart the circumstances of these incidents are. My friend Don was very qualified, trained and prepared for this dive with the proper equipment, techniques and mind set for the dive. I am convinced that Don's problem was medically related and could have occured working out at the gym.
Reading the details that highlandfarmwv provided, I'm pretty sure that Amy was not ready for the dive in training(open water
maybe advanced training with fewer than 50 dives by her own admission) or experience(obvious to anyone reading highlandfarmwv's description of Amy's dive plan to not stay long, stay around the anchor, not look for teeth, not use a computer), not prepared with the correct equipment( single tank, no pony, no reel, no computer) and not diving with the right mind set as demonstrated by the failure to monitor air supply, failure to follow a reel line back to the anchor line, diving solo and deep with a lack of experience in both and not utilizing a buddy when one was offered by two different people.
I've dove many times in North Carolina and while not all require you to have a buddy, most require you to take at least a pony or doubles if your diving solo. I'm not looking to point any fingers as Amy was by all accounts an adult, capable of making her own decisions, but in this case the dive shop/boat crew need to shoulder some of the blame as they allowed her to get on the boat to start with and do the dive solo
without the proper qualifications/equipment/mind set. My understanding is that the boat captain that day was her husband, who should have known she was not ready for this dive. They did have a duty to tell her "No, you can't do this dive by yourself".
No one else on the boat should feel any guilt at all, as they would not have been in a position to know what Amy was getting herself into based on her training, lack of experience and inadequate gear configuration.
Sorry if I've hurt anyone's feelings, and my condolences to Amy's loved ones, but this was an avoidable [-]accident[/-] chain of events that could have been stopped at any of several points.