lamont:
Myth #1: DIR divers follow protocols handed down from instructors without thinking about them.
Myth #2: DIR/Team divers are dependent divers who couldn't solo dive alone.
I think on the contrary, you hit the nail on the head. As with all things - does not apply to all divers - but I think these myth's as you describe them are right on target.
As for #1, you read it all the time right on this site. For example, the religious opposition to carrying any gear that supposedly affects "streamlining, hydostatic instability" etc. such as two reels, ankle weights, etc. Any diver who actually tested these concepts, rather than spewing what they were told with 0 personal experience, would know it's irrelevant in the real world. It is not blasphemous for a DIR diver to admit that if you were to wear ankle weights on dive #1, then were sans ankle weights for dive #2, with all other factors being equal, there would be 0 measurable difference in air consumed or anything else?
#2 is also right on in my opinion. DIR divers universally have a different definition of dependence. If you need to rely on your buddies gear for any reason, I consider that dependent. DIR divers rationalize that differently.
My perspective is that of a solo diver.
Contrary to the tone, I'm not trying to bust your chops but to be accurate about the topic of discussion. I have spoken to one DIR instructor on this site who I think is right on, has a great attitude, does not fall within the sterotypical DIR diver, etc. Once again, the DIR stigma is not accurate for all, but in opinion, many.
--Matt