I love dive computers, they're very helpful for the diving I do (though I've never bothered with any alarm type features and have little interest in AI computers - or at least not enough to want to pay for it.) For some people they're less useful. And some people, including lots on this board, have trouble putting themselves in other people's shoes and recognizing what's useless to one person is perfect for another. It's like there is no situation but their own.
But one thing that makes scuba different than flying, or lots of other things - water (particularly salt water) and electronics don't mix well. It's an environment hostile to technology in general. Some people feel too much or unneccesary reliance on it is a bad thing for that reason.
Another difference is how well trained people are, and how seriously they take what they're doing. I doubt anyone would argue having an altitude warning on a plane is a bad thing. At the same time, I'm thinking it's a pretty rare pilot that regularly coasts along paying no attention to altitude until the alarm goes off. In diving, it seems there are more people who will actually do the equivalent given the means. And some folks feel making it easier for people to understand less about what they are doing, or pay attention less, is less safe and a bad thing. Beats me.