Soggy:They aren't cool and shiny and most DMs/Instructors/Divers that I've seen couldn't kick their way out of a mud-puddle and only use the flutter. If they need to back up, they wave their hands....They are also often diving in incredibly benign environments (warm, clear water, no silt). It's sad, but generally speaking when I see "DM" or "Instructor" next to someone's name in the recreational diving world, my default reaction is "incompetent." Thankfully, I am sometimes proven wrong, but most of the time my gut reaction is on the money.
I'm sorry that in your period of diving that you've had such experiences with instructors and DMs, but don't you think you are making a bit of a generalisation? Yes, I agree, there are crap instructors and DMs out there, but the majority I've had the pleasure to dive with are excellent divers with superb buoyancy and control. And they aren't all in benign environments I am not just talking fluffy Caribbean, I am talking about rip-arse currents in the Far East, the Indian Ocean and the Red Sea, and I am also talking about the UK, where we can have ****ty vis, bad currents and well-silted-out wrecks. You want challenging dives, try some of the deeper wrecks in the English Channel.
Mark