Buddha44
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Diver0001:I wouldn't blame the agency. The agency isn't forcing any instructor to take on such a student. It's the instructor's own responsibility and often times these highly challenging students can't be certified at all without "bending the rules" (read making standards violations).
In fact it isn't uncommon for aquaphobics to look to scubadiving as a way to confront their problem, just like people who are afraid of heights somehow find skydiving interesting.....
This might come as some surprise but teaching such a student to dive isn't much fun for the student or for the instructor. The only cases I've seen at the shop where I assist have been weeded out by the intro. We don't teach them. We suggest they take swimming lessons first and come back when they're feeling more comfortable.
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I was recently certified and throughout the certification process I kept wondering if I would be able to handle all the new things I was learning. For a newbie, like me it is especially difficult to know whether we have achieved the minimal competency so that we do not endanger ourselves, buddies and the environment.
In my case, I did well on the test and study questions because I kept rereading the material until I understood it. But the first time we actually handled the EQ (other than what we purchased initially) was at the pool. I probably made every mistake known to man while we were going through the equipment check. But my instructors (SSI) were very patient and helped each one of us and explained our errors. I am glad that I made those mistakes. By the time I did my OW dive, I felt more comfortable with the EQ than I would have otherwise.
On my OW dive (Dutch Springs, PA), I was apprehensive about buoyancy control. There were only two of us but when one student was getting tired, the instructor sat down with her, talked it over and nudged her into calling it a day. You can tell she felt very relieved. He said she could come as many times as she wanted (both pool and OW) until she felt comfortable without any additional cost. He then dived with me so I had solo training for the rest of the afternoon. I passed my hovering and was able to stay near the required depth through most of the other tasks but when I was doing my compass navigation, I shot up from 20ffw up to the surface like a bullet. Clearly I can't concentrate on more than one thing at a time.
I was apprehensive about doing my first ocean dive in Cancun because I had heard so much about the cattle dives. After reading on this board about different operators, I ended up at Solo Buceo (they were great!). I was fortunate that there were two DMs -- one for an experienced group of four and one for two new divers (including me). I was surprised (with additional advice from the DM throughout the dive) that I was better at buoyancy control and was able to alter depth (50 ft) mostly through controlled breathing.
I can say that every step I took I felt both apprehensive and exhilirated. I was fearful that I understood nothing and then surprised when I succeeded in accomplishing a task. The fear wasn't from fear of water or drowning or the lack of instruction -- it was the fear of not knowing if I was doing it right or by accident. And then the fear would ease into joy when I could repeat it and realize that I did have some minimal control over it. I am probably the text book example of a person who should not have passed because of the ineptitude I showed throughout my training. But I passed because at the end of the day when we were tested, I had retained some of those minimal skills.
Did I feel "comfortable", have "mastery", or feel I could dive with my niece and be in charge? No way! Under those standards, I probably would have to do the OW dive another 20 to 30 times to be comfortable and much more to feel that I have mastery or feel I can safely dive with my niece.
The scary thing is that even though I am a newbie, the moment I am in the water, I am responsible for myself and my buddy and if a true emergency occurred, I do not know if I could handle it. The only thing I can control is to take baby steps and dive in circumstances and depths I think I can handle. The best thing is that I didn't know if I would find buddies and I ended up making friends. I'm glad at age 44 I decided to take the plunge and experience a whole new world.
Dive safely