There is nothing wrong with staying rec or with going tec. I am trained tec and still do the majority of my diving in rec limits. I do apply much of my tec training to my rec diving to make myself a much safer diver and my team much safer. It isn't a better person, but usually a different type of person. Many tec divers, like myself, are type "A" and also love the loading of gear, planning, gas management, dive planning etc. Trust me, even with all that goes into a tec dive there is still soooo much time to enjoy the actual dive. We have a drift dive here that runs 150-170fsw and is awesome. There are several cool rock formations and huge fish all along it.
It is also important to remember that tec is not all about just going deep, carrying 6 bottles and doing deco. Many of my tec dives are 30-60fsw. Not much nicer than doing an awesome shore dive for 3 hours in 30-40fsw. You can explore your favorite dive spot for longer, go further out or down the shore and get more dive time, in less time, than you can do 2 single tank dives with your surface interval.
It is also important to remember that tec is not all about just going deep, carrying 6 bottles and doing deco. Many of my tec dives are 30-60fsw. Not much nicer than doing an awesome shore dive for 3 hours in 30-40fsw. You can explore your favorite dive spot for longer, go further out or down the shore and get more dive time, in less time, than you can do 2 single tank dives with your surface interval.