Check lists are good, but forgetting to turn on your gas is a minor mistake if your valves are on the bottom and can be reached easily. Things happen on boats, people get distracted. But if you understand the workings of your unit and body you will be watching your PO2 and your gauges during crucial phases like descent.
I agree with much of your post, but I respectfully and completely disagree with this. People have died because they didn't turn on their O2. Unlike OC, where it's immediately apparent that your gas is off and you can reach around and turn it on, the first sign of the gas being off on CCR might be loss of consciousness. It is definitely not a minor mistake. Yes, you should be watching your PO2, but as you say, "things happen".
PLEASE, use some kind of physical pre-splash checklist EVERY TIME.