I will give you what would have helped me when I was looking for a wetsuit. I have a 5mm Henderson Goldcore. Over the weekend I was diving in water 72 degrees. It leaks pretty good up the back, but I keep pretty warm in it. I am 5'10" and 190 lbs. If the weather is warm (80-90) then I would be fine in that. This trip the weather was more in the 60s and 70s, and I ended up getting chilled and then I wore a Henderson Goldcore vest/hood 3mm/5mm and I was toasty in that.
It would be really hard to get scientific because so many variables are in the picture such as body type, proneness to cold, ability to be cold and comfy, multiple dives, temp, wind/chill, current which takes heat away, depth one is going and thermoclines, etc.
Hope this helps. It helped me just reading actual people's real time usage of wetsuits. I have been to about 53 degrees before but not for long.
I agree overall the drysuit is by far the best option but also pricey. Much more versatile, potential to be safer as backup buoyancy, and less compression at depth.
Hope this helps.
Tommy