It is with a bit of trepidation that I get involved in this discussion again. I think the ideas expressed on the issue of bias and on what that means for Tina’s family are interesting. I wonder if these pre-trial antics will play a role in the final outcome of this trial.
I do understand K-Girl’s point about seeing Watson as “guilty” given that he had once claimed that Tina would be safe with him. I think she is right (at least in this case) that the family have a pretty grim opinion of Mr. Watson. I think it is a bit incredulous, however , to assume that ALL parents under similar circumstances would 1) draw the same conclusions and 2) become convinced that Watson is guilty and needed to be tried in the US. I am always wary of such sweeping proclamations. She is probably right that a great number of people would do the same, however, especially when faced with Watson’s odd behavior after the fact.
From a legal standpoint, I wonder about one thing. All divers have to sign a waiver form that includes comments to the effect that diving is a dangerous sport and that divers ought to be appropriately certified to participate. There is usually a further disclaimer that asks a participant in diving to recognize that he or she is solely responsible for going into the water while breathing compressed air.
My wife’s family comes from Australia and I have therefore been fortunate enough to do some diving in QLD and NSW. In each case this notion of individual responsibility has been taken quite seriously. For instance, dive guides were not readily available unless paid for in advance, which essentially meant that I needed to stick to the dive profile offered on the boat and I needed to pay closer attention to my surroundings than I might in Thailand for instance. In QLD at least, the diver (not the operator) is fined if an SPG is not used or if a diver’s kit does not include a whistle. This connects well with the ethos of self-responsibility in Oz.
If we extend this understanding of self-reliance and self-responsibility to the dive in question, I don’t see how
Watson can be legally culpable for Tina’s death if she also filled in one of these forms based on the training she would have claimed she had. Of course Watson is responsible if he turned her air off. Leaving this assumption aside for the moment and saying instead that he is guilty primarily of being a lousy dive buddy, where is his “legal” responsibility for Tina’s ultimate decision to go into the water as a certified diver? This is the part that I haven’t been able to get from the arguments so far.
In all the annals of the tragedies that befall a “trust me” dive, the end result always boils down to two significant mistakes: 1) the idiot who tries to convince a diver of something using the phrase “trust me” and 2) the idiot who allows him or herself to be convinced to go beyond what is comfortable based on this “trust me” argument. Like the proverbial chicken and the egg, you can’t have a trust me dive tragedy without both of these component parts. Tragically, it tends to be that the latter person suffers most of the consequences in such cases, primarily because they lack the practical experience in the water. This is the reality of diving.
If it can be clearly established that Watson did turn off Tina’s air and hold her until she died, then of course a murder conviction should be the consequence for his actions, though in my humble opinion that ought to have been done in the country where the alleged crime took place. I am very uncomfortable with the double jeopardy implications in this case.
If in the end the worst that can be established is that Watson convinced his new bride to do something she was not really ready to do, I don’t think that murder or even manslaughter are apt, unless we have now come to the point where we are saying we can shift the responsibility we all have as divers from where it really ought to lie: with ourselves.
Since so many of us have already waxed armchair psychologist where Tina’s family are concerned, I will give it a go also. Perhaps when Tina’s family members searched their various memories for times when the topic of diving came up they were confronted with the fact that they didn’t pay close enough attention to her worries. Maybe they are troubled at the fact that they didn’t try to get her not to do it, or not with enough conviction. Maybe they were party to the conversations where people (including Dave Watson) discussed how safe the sport really is when one gets the proper training. As Its-Bruce said earlier, perhaps the bias we are seeing is the manifestation of a protection mechanism that thrusts all of their own guilt onto one convenient target. K-Girl is absolutely right that none of us can really understand what Tina’s family know, but our ignorance of this in no way negates us understanding that the stress they must be under might very well colour how they are interpreting things.
As Its-Bruce as aptly pointed out, human memory is a fickle beast, and when we are grief stricken, we can contort past events to meet with a judgment we have come to in post hoc fashion. And as much as I can point to this potential in someone else’s tragedy, I could easily find myself doing exactly the same thing if I found myself in Tina’s parents’ shoes with all of the emotional trauma they must be suffering. We are all human after all.
Of course I have no way of knowing if any of this is really true. Until the facts come out more and are appropriately vetted, it is really kind of hard to say anything about Watson’s innocence or guilt. I have a sinking suspicion that the outcome will create even more questions than answers. Given the politics charged in this case, it could ultimately end up being popularity contest with the jury that decides Watson’s fate.
If that ends up being the case, the real convicted parties in this tragedy will be our judicial system and the millions of divers the world over who endeavor to go into the water. If he really is guilty of this, please, please, please let his conviction come with the proverbial smoking gun. Nothing I have seen thus far comes even remotely close to establishing this at all. I hope there is more to this story that can provide some appropriate resolution.
Cheers!
I do understand K-Girl’s point about seeing Watson as “guilty” given that he had once claimed that Tina would be safe with him. I think she is right (at least in this case) that the family have a pretty grim opinion of Mr. Watson. I think it is a bit incredulous, however , to assume that ALL parents under similar circumstances would 1) draw the same conclusions and 2) become convinced that Watson is guilty and needed to be tried in the US. I am always wary of such sweeping proclamations. She is probably right that a great number of people would do the same, however, especially when faced with Watson’s odd behavior after the fact.
From a legal standpoint, I wonder about one thing. All divers have to sign a waiver form that includes comments to the effect that diving is a dangerous sport and that divers ought to be appropriately certified to participate. There is usually a further disclaimer that asks a participant in diving to recognize that he or she is solely responsible for going into the water while breathing compressed air.
My wife’s family comes from Australia and I have therefore been fortunate enough to do some diving in QLD and NSW. In each case this notion of individual responsibility has been taken quite seriously. For instance, dive guides were not readily available unless paid for in advance, which essentially meant that I needed to stick to the dive profile offered on the boat and I needed to pay closer attention to my surroundings than I might in Thailand for instance. In QLD at least, the diver (not the operator) is fined if an SPG is not used or if a diver’s kit does not include a whistle. This connects well with the ethos of self-responsibility in Oz.
If we extend this understanding of self-reliance and self-responsibility to the dive in question, I don’t see how
Watson can be legally culpable for Tina’s death if she also filled in one of these forms based on the training she would have claimed she had. Of course Watson is responsible if he turned her air off. Leaving this assumption aside for the moment and saying instead that he is guilty primarily of being a lousy dive buddy, where is his “legal” responsibility for Tina’s ultimate decision to go into the water as a certified diver? This is the part that I haven’t been able to get from the arguments so far.
In all the annals of the tragedies that befall a “trust me” dive, the end result always boils down to two significant mistakes: 1) the idiot who tries to convince a diver of something using the phrase “trust me” and 2) the idiot who allows him or herself to be convinced to go beyond what is comfortable based on this “trust me” argument. Like the proverbial chicken and the egg, you can’t have a trust me dive tragedy without both of these component parts. Tragically, it tends to be that the latter person suffers most of the consequences in such cases, primarily because they lack the practical experience in the water. This is the reality of diving.
If it can be clearly established that Watson did turn off Tina’s air and hold her until she died, then of course a murder conviction should be the consequence for his actions, though in my humble opinion that ought to have been done in the country where the alleged crime took place. I am very uncomfortable with the double jeopardy implications in this case.
If in the end the worst that can be established is that Watson convinced his new bride to do something she was not really ready to do, I don’t think that murder or even manslaughter are apt, unless we have now come to the point where we are saying we can shift the responsibility we all have as divers from where it really ought to lie: with ourselves.
Since so many of us have already waxed armchair psychologist where Tina’s family are concerned, I will give it a go also. Perhaps when Tina’s family members searched their various memories for times when the topic of diving came up they were confronted with the fact that they didn’t pay close enough attention to her worries. Maybe they are troubled at the fact that they didn’t try to get her not to do it, or not with enough conviction. Maybe they were party to the conversations where people (including Dave Watson) discussed how safe the sport really is when one gets the proper training. As Its-Bruce said earlier, perhaps the bias we are seeing is the manifestation of a protection mechanism that thrusts all of their own guilt onto one convenient target. K-Girl is absolutely right that none of us can really understand what Tina’s family know, but our ignorance of this in no way negates us understanding that the stress they must be under might very well colour how they are interpreting things.
As Its-Bruce as aptly pointed out, human memory is a fickle beast, and when we are grief stricken, we can contort past events to meet with a judgment we have come to in post hoc fashion. And as much as I can point to this potential in someone else’s tragedy, I could easily find myself doing exactly the same thing if I found myself in Tina’s parents’ shoes with all of the emotional trauma they must be suffering. We are all human after all.
Of course I have no way of knowing if any of this is really true. Until the facts come out more and are appropriately vetted, it is really kind of hard to say anything about Watson’s innocence or guilt. I have a sinking suspicion that the outcome will create even more questions than answers. Given the politics charged in this case, it could ultimately end up being popularity contest with the jury that decides Watson’s fate.
If that ends up being the case, the real convicted parties in this tragedy will be our judicial system and the millions of divers the world over who endeavor to go into the water. If he really is guilty of this, please, please, please let his conviction come with the proverbial smoking gun. Nothing I have seen thus far comes even remotely close to establishing this at all. I hope there is more to this story that can provide some appropriate resolution.
Cheers!
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