ERP once bubbled...
Oh my buddy was right there looking at me. He just isn't a mind reader, he obviously saw me put the reg in upside down, and was ready to assist if I requested it. When he saw the reg go into freeflow, he figured I had air, and it was best just to let me resolve the situation rather than being proactive.
That reminds me of another scenario I was involved in. A buddy, who is also an instructor and has exceptional skills were taking an advanced class from another buddy of ours who is a tech instructor. During a pool session we had to perform drills, facing away from each other so that the scenario our buddy was in came as a surprise.
My buddy came to me with an OOA emergency and no mask. I immediately deployed my octo, but somehow it went past his outstretched hand, yet not quite to his mouth. Reaching for the regulator, his hands closed on my mask and tugged. Suddenly my mask his flooded and he is still out of air. As he let go of my mask realizing his mistake, I switched to my necklaced reg, and he made an ESA to the surface (in about 8' of water). It wasnt until I got my mask back on and cleared that I noticed that he and our instructor had surfaced.
Debriefing led us to the following conclusions:
1) He hadn't retained sufficient breath to make the swim to me AND signal out of air then wait for a response. Either he exhaled too fast during the swim, or he should have just taken my reg instead of waiting for me to donate it. (We dive long hose, necklaced secondary and practice this method)
2) I was not expecting him to have 2 emergencies (no mask, OOA) and the missing mask distracted me into pausing a few seconds before deploying my reg.
3) I didnt place the reg in his hand. Instead I placed it close to his face as we usually do during the drills. However with no mask on, his eyes were closed and he didnt see it.
4) After the Charlie Foxtrot of the regulator exchange, he headed to the surface, ignoring the necklaced reg around his OWN neck.
This exercise taught both of us a valuable lesson. First and foremost, is that even the simplest dive can go wrong. And just because your buddy is visible, doesn't mean they are close enough to help in an actual emergency. We also practice worst case scenarios now: Mutliple failures. As Mr. Murphy dictates, when it starts to roll down hill, it usually don't stop til it hits the bottom.
I am also proud to note that we both finished the class with no further hitches and I was given an opportunity to read the instructors course notes after the class.
"Both students have endevoured to increase their diving skill and knowledge by continuing their education including the completion of a recent DIRF class. One is also an instructor, the other cave certified and their skill and bouyancy control exceeds the requirements for this class."
Kinda made me all warm n fuzzy
But the moral of the story, no matter what your skill level, things can and do go wrong. Practice and training can't prepare you for every eventuality, but they can give you confidence in your skills that may just buy you that extra moment or two that you need to handle the problem.
Equally important, after a situation occurs, debrief with your dive partners. Analyze what happened, and why. What you did right, and what you could have done better. Good divers learn from their mistakes, the bad ones will continue to repeat them....