As both a pilot and diver, this has been a great read. I'm currently a far more professional and experienced pilot than diver, but I'm working to rapidly make up the difference, and I'm struck regularly by the similarities between the two. While I could certainly point out differences, I think the fundamental nature of flying and diving have very much in common.
Both are about man venturing somewhere he could not normally go via technology created specifically for that purpose. The venture is not always simple, and requires the diver or aviator to train for some period of time before he can safely carry out the activity. He must learn the equipment, how to operate it and maintain it, and he must learn the fundamental sciences and skills that will keep him alive in his new, fluid environment. When everything is going well, his training is generally sufficient to enjoy the trip and make it safely back home. But when equipment fails, or the environment becomes hazardous, with unexpected dangers, the quality and skills of the man and his machines are quickly revealed.
To some degree, there is always danger involved in the activity. That's why everyone needs at least some basic training to participate. But there are a vast array of recreational, professional, and scientific endeavors that can take place in these different worlds, and some of these require more capable and complex equipment to not only enable the activity in the first place, but to mitigate the higher risk associated with that activity. The more dangerous environments, such as taking twins/a twin into a low visibility situation, require more advanced training and skills to operate the additional equipment and still accomplish the objective with some relative degree of safety. Thus you eventually develop a full spectrum of participants, from those too new to operate the equipment by themselves, to those who are regular recreational participants within the bounds of their training, to those who professionally or personally push the limits of modern capabilities, with the best and sharpest training, the most advanced cutting edge technology, and the greatest goals yet undertaken by man in that field.
And before I get it from all sides, my wife is also an active diver, and I use "man" only in the grandest sense of the word, a la Neil Armstrong, and "he" only to save keystrokes.