The question I always pose is: What if something happens to YOU, the parent? And what if Little Janie can't rescue you or even does everything possible but . . . you die? How will that affect them for the rest of their lives?
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So if you're getting certified with your child or if you're an instructor who has a child as a student, try to have a really lengthy heart-to-heart with them about death and diving. It may not be enough for them to just say, "I get it," and something a little more deeper and detailed might be required.
- Ken
Thanks - not just for me but for the parent that may be considering diving with their child and not consider this.
For my part. I'm very upfront and forward, and I've been a volunteer EMT for years. Thus myself and my kids know that sometimes people die - despite the best efforts of people, including me. And sometimes they are old people and sometimes they are people who are young and "not supposed" to die; but they do.
Before being willing to sign us up for classes we talked at length about the possibilities of diving fatalities, we read and discussed the "who's responsible for what" thread, that she can't expect me to protect her, nor her I, from the risks of diving - which is not to say that we won't help each other. Ultimately, we had a good discussion about the fact that we each need to protect ourselves through training and braining, but still she may need to help save me some day, and vice versa. And that perhaps, it may not work out, despite everyone's best efforts.
We also talked about it with my wife - although in a bit less detail. Oddly enough, or maybe not so oddly, she was much more uneasy about it than either of us. She also is someone that I would never in a million years allow to dive. I've seen her panic on the surface while snorkeling because an unfamiliar - and beautiful clear 3 ft. long jelly fish, swam in front of her.
Anyway, in another thread I mentioned that I was getting a physical before diving even though the PADI medical questionaire answers didn't require it. When I told some people that I didn't want to have diving be the screening test for an underlying fatal medical condition, and that it would be bad enough to die, but worse to do it in front of my daughter who would be trying to save me - they looked at me like I was sick in the head. Funny, because I think people who figure everything is fine, in health or anything else, until they are proven wrong are the nuts. But that's just me.