Hi gang,
You've already mentioned nearly all the commercially available mouthpieces. The ComfoBite is not held by the teeth so theoretically, it should reduce muscle strain. SeaCure and JAX mouthpieces are heat moldable. When done properly, an even, non-stressed bite is created and this ought to minimize muscle spasm.
There is a catch however. In my opinion, the instructions, when followed properly, DO NOT generate something called centric relation. If you are experiencing TMJ symptoms at the time you are shaping the bite, you will, very likely, generate a bite pattern that mates with your teeth when your bite is "out of whack." You learn to posture your jaw in the most comfortable position. If this position doesn't allow the jaw joints to seat properly, then this will strain the muscles. You will end up positioning your jaw to the learned position rather than the centric position which bite guards are supposed to be fabricated to.
There is a way around this but it is rather complicated to explain in print. If your dentist is willing, he might be able to manipulate your jaw into centric while shaping the bite.
One of the triggers to TMJ is to have heavy individual tooth contacts far back in the mouth. For this reason, you should certainly trim any extensions of the mouthpiece that are farther back than the first molars. Be aware that different regulators have different diameter openings in the second stage. Make sure that you purchase the correct size mouthpiece for your model.
I personally use the SeaCure and find that it works well.
Other ways to reduce strain on the jaws is to use an appropriate length hose, use a smooth functioning swivel, use a light weight second stage, make sure that you have a "dry" breathing regulator. A proper fit to the mask is also important. It it presses too tightly on the upper lip, it can displace the mouthpiece and you have to work harder to keep it positioned in your mouth. A full face mask, even with its bulk and bouyancy, is another method to reduce jaw strain and therefore TMJ symptoms.
It is even possible for improper weight distribution to exacerbate TMJ. If you are swimming in a awkward position and straining your neck, you can also contribute to general head and neck fatigue. If you already have TMJ problems, you swimming posture can affect you jaws.
In one of my posts in the past, I tried to describe a method of fabricating the SeaCure in the centric position. Keep looking on the board and perhaps you will find it.
Hope this helps.
Laurence Stein, DDS